The Career Coach: Time To Turn Your Dreams Into Reality

It's the New Year folks and time to get moving on making your dreams come true. Pamela Thompson, the Career Coach, gives you the specifics on how to get started.
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Pamela Kleibrink Thompson

It's a whole new year -- a chance to start fresh. What can you do in 2002 to make your dreams come true? Turn them into goals. A goal is a dream with a deadline.

Define Your Dreams
Goals can be anything you want. Write down whatever they may be. Write a date after each one -- the date you expect to achieve that goal. Give yourself a reasonable amount of time for each. Writing down your goals will help you stay on track. Fewer than 3% of the U.S. population actually writes down their goals so already you will be ahead of 97% of other people.

Write down both short term and long range goals so you can have a map of what you'd like to accomplish/acquire/learn/earn/do. Don't be afraid of putting down even the most impossible or outrageous goals. You'll never get those dreams if you don't know what they are.

If you prefer, you can create a dream board, which is a visual representation of your goals. Use drawings, slogans, photos or other visuals to illustrate your list of goals on a poster board. Hang it prominently so you can remind yourself of your direction every day. You can have a dream board party. Invite some friends over to share their dreams and make the boards together.

The dream board or goals list is what you want -- not the expectations or wishes of anyone else. Don't worry about what others think of your goals/plans. They're your desires. This is a time to write down what is important to you. Some goals may be long term -- a friend of mine wants to exhibit at the Guggenheim in New York. He hasn't had a show there yet, but he works every day toward achieving this dream.

Get Writing!
Even if you have just one or two goals write them down -- no matter how extreme they may seem. Don't censor yourself into thinking that your goal is impossible.

Example:
Goals for 2002 (January 2002).
Get a new job.
Meet new people.

Be Specific.
You have to be specific in order for your dreams/goals to become reality. So rewrite your goals to be as specific as possible. Goals must be specific and measurable. Your goal might be to become a better artist, but without specifics you won't be able to achieve this goal. Some examples of specific goals might be: Take life drawing classes once a week. Go to the zoo once a month and draw the animals for 3 hours. Go to the mall once a month and draw people for 3 hours. Update portfolio twice a year -- once in May, once in November. Get the idea?

Better Example:
Goals for 2002 (January 2002).
Get a job as a voice over actor by June 1st.
Meet two new people a week.
















Comments


Good article - most of us tend to read such articles, and not do anything about them - I have resolved to focus on the goals and things that I want to achieve short and long term.
Partha Mallikarjun (not verified) | Mon, 03/25/2002 - 01:00 | Permalink
Excellent article!!! I agree with your comments, if you want your dreams then you have to work hard at them and start right away. That is what I am doing. I've always wanted to be an animator so this year I said "Why not me?" So I have enrolled into an Art Institute and I am going to start April 1st. I am finally going after my dreams of becoming an animator. I am also going to follow your advise and start drawing at least 1 hour everyday, never thought of that before. I am really pumped about drawing and everything that I will learn. And I can't wait to see where it takes me. Thanks again for the great information.
Dustan Yates (not verified) | Tue, 03/19/2002 - 01:00 | Permalink

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